∞ ABOUT AUTISM BLOG

We're parents, by passion. Writers, by accident.

Autism Blog started because we couldn’t find a place that talked TO parents — not at them, not down to them, not while trying to sell something. So we built it ourselves: parent writers, careful research, every claim linked back to a primary source you can verify yourself.

∞ OUR STORY

It started at 2 AM, with a screenshot folder.

One of our founders — a mom of an autistic six-year-old — kept a folder on her desktop called “things I wish I’d known.” Screenshots of contradictory advice from autism Facebook groups. Highlighted PDFs from the AAP no one had ever told her about. A spreadsheet of therapy options with notes on which ones the autism community considered helpful, and which ones they considered harmful.

After her daughter’s IEP meeting, she realized: the information parents need has always existed somewhere. Buried in a JAMA Pediatrics study. In the comments under a parent’s viral TikTok. In a private Discord for autistic adults explaining what they wished their parents had understood.

“The parents who already know all of this had to learn the hard way. Our job is to make sure no one else has to.”

So she started reading the primary sources herself — CDC guidelines, AAP screening recommendations, peer-reviewed studies in JAMA Pediatrics. She built a habit of linking every article back to its source so any reader could verify it independently.

Two years later, that’s the project. Six rotating parent writers, a small group of autistic adult readers who keep us honest about language, and one quiet promise: we will never write down to you, we will always link our sources, and we will never sell you anything.

∞ HOW WE WRITE

Five steps every guide goes through.

This is what “researched, parent-written, source-checked” actually means in practice — not as a marketing line.

1

Researched from primary sources

We start with the source material — CDC guidelines, AAP screening recommendations, peer-reviewed studies in JAMA Pediatrics, Pediatrics, and Autism Research. We never paraphrase what another blog said about a study. We read the study.

2

Drafted by a parent who has lived it

The first draft is always written by a parent who has personal experience with the topic. We never use AI to generate articles. The voice you read is a real person who has had this conversation with their own pediatrician, evaluator, or child.

3

Fact-checked against published guidelines

Every article is fact-checked against published guidelines and primary sources — the CDC, American Academy of Pediatrics, peer-reviewed studies, and statements from autistic-led advocacy groups. Where our wording interprets a source, we link directly to it.

4

Parent-tested for clarity and tone

Two parents from our reader panel read every article before publishing. They tell us where we got too technical, where we sounded condescending, and where we missed the question they would actually be asking.

5

Updated quarterly with the date shown

Every article shows when it was last updated. Each quarter, we check for new research, updated guidelines, or community feedback that should change the guidance. Outdated articles are revised — never quietly removed.

∞ WHO'S BEHIND THIS

Where this comes from.

We’re parents who research carefully — not professionals. Here’s who writes the articles, where we cite our facts, and whose voices shape what we cover.

ET

Editorial Team

Parent Writers

Parents of autistic children, ages toddler through teen. We write what we wish we'd had access to when our own kids were diagnosed.

RS

Research Sources

Where We Cite

CDC, American Academy of Pediatrics, NIH, JAMA Pediatrics, Pediatrics, Autism Research, and autistic-led organizations like ASAN. Every claim links back.

PV

Parent Voices

Reader Panel

Parents who share quotes, experiences, and feedback through our reader panel. Their lived experience shapes which questions we tackle next.

AV

Autistic Voices

Community Input

We follow autistic-adult writers and organizations closely — and revise tone or language whenever the autistic community pushes back on framing.

∞ WHAT WE WON'T DO

Things you'll never see here.

No fearmongering

We never frame autism as a crisis, an epidemic, or something that requires "fixing." Autism is a way of being — not a disease.

No puzzle pieces

We use the rainbow infinity symbol, which the autism community chose. Puzzle pieces have been rejected by autistic adults — we listen to them.

No ads, no sponsorships, no paywalls

Every guide is free forever. We don't take money from therapy companies, supplement brands, or any organization with a financial stake in your decisions.

∞ COMMON QUESTIONS

What parents ask before they trust us.

Is this a medical site? Can I rely on you for diagnosis?+

No, and this matters. We are not doctors, therapists, or specialists of any kind. We are parents who read carefully and link every claim to its primary source so you can verify what we say. This site is an educational starting point — never a substitute for a qualified evaluator who can actually assess your child.

Why do you say "autistic child" instead of "child with autism"?+

This is called identity-first language, and surveys of autistic adults consistently show a strong preference for it over person-first language ("child with autism"). Major autistic-led organizations like ASAN use identity-first language.

That said, we respect that some families and individuals prefer person-first. You'll see both used here when quoting parents directly.

How do you make money if everything is free?+

We don't, in the traditional sense. The site is funded by Nexus Digital Marketing — the agency that built and maintains it as a community service. The writers volunteer their time.

We may offer a paid weekly newsletter someday for parents who want more in-depth analysis, but the core articles will always be free. We will never run display ads, sponsored content, or affiliate links to products we wouldn't independently recommend.

Why don't you cover ABA more positively?+

Because the autistic adult community has serious, consistent, well-documented concerns about how ABA has historically been practiced. We cover ABA honestly — including the evidence base, the criticisms from autistic adults who experienced it as children, and the difference between modern naturalistic approaches and older compliance-based models.

Our job isn't to take a side in this debate. It's to give parents the full picture so they can make an informed decision about what's right for their child.

Can I contribute? My family has a story.+

Yes — we'd love to hear from you. We're always looking for parent voices, especially from underrepresented communities. Email [email protected] with a few sentences about what you'd like to share.

My child is having a meltdown right now. What do I do?+

If your child is safe but overwhelmed: reduce sensory input (lights, sound, talking), don't try to reason in the moment, give them space and time, and stay calm. Recovery often takes longer than the meltdown itself.

If you're worried about immediate safety, call 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) — they handle developmental crisis calls and can connect you to local resources. We are not a crisis line.

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